“Why do I keep choosing partners who don’t value me?”

“Why do I keep choosing partners who don’t value me?” one of our followers asks our expert in the “Ask a Psychologist” series.

Sometimes it may seem like it’s just bad luck—that you simply keep meeting “the wrong person.” But if the same pattern repeats itself over and over again, it’s probably not a coincidence, says practising psychologist Yana Kobets. Often, these choices are driven by deeply rooted beliefs and relationship patterns that we may not even realise we have.

In this new video, our expert explains why we are drawn to people who end up hurting us and what can help us break free from this cycle.

Watch the psychologist’s answer in the video—it may help you see your own relationship experiences from a new perspective.

If you need professional advice, you’re also welcome to submit your own question to Yana.

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